It Starts in the Heart, It Starts in the Home with Conscious Discipline
Explore the power self-regulation has in creating resilient and connected family systems.
Conscious Discipline Transforms Families, One Shift at a Time
Traditional discipline methods often leave families feeling frustrated and disconnected. Conscious Discipline offers a new path: one built on connection, safety, and problem-solving.
Children Thrive With Conscious Discipline
Support the Families, Support the Child
Establish a Family Culture of Safety, Connection and Problem-Solving
Customized Support for Parents and Families
Increase Communication, Cultivate Cooperation
How Conscious Discipline Helps Whole Families Thrive
By helping parents and caregivers regulate their own emotions first, this approach creates calmer homes, stronger relationships, and more resilient children. It’s not about perfection—it’s about progress, one perspective shift at a time.
Four Next Steps for Parents
Read the Book
Focus on self-control and confidence-building for both parent and child with strategies backed by science.
Feeling Buddies
Give children the lifelong gifts of emotional well-being and self-regulation with the revolutionary Feeling Buddies system.
E-Learning
Increase cooperation, communication and connection family-wide on your own time, at your own pace.
2-Day Workshops
Discover essential strategies, support and like-minded peers at our 2-Day Workshops around the country. Browse dates, topics and locations..
Award-Winning Social and Emotional Learning in Action
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The Right Tools, The Right Support
Conscious Discipline’s live, virtual events deliver a transformational message of safety, connection and problem-solving that enriches classrooms, schools, homes and communities.
CD Now is our brand new micro learning, yearly subscription library designed to compliment and integrate Conscious Discipline in a way that fits into any busy schedule- even yours.
We all have default, go-to tools in our parenting toolbox. Your tools were passed down from your parents, who learned them from their parents, and so on for generations.
The reality is that if we don’t practice self-care, we can’t give our best selves to our children, spouses, and others around us.
Tune in to hear how to shift your mindset and language around toileting so you can empower children to learn this new skill. And if you want to learn more about potty mastery, stay tuned for Joan’s upcoming book with Conscious Discipline.
To learn more about practicing Conscious Discipline as a family, join Dr. Becky Bailey in conversation with mother-daughter duo Nicole and Ally. They share how family life and family relationships have changed, along with their top Conscious Discipline tips for both adults and children.
In this episode, 2020 National Teacher of the Year Tabatha Rosproy joins new hosts Latoria and Amy for their Real Talk for Real Teachers debut. Tabatha is a Conscious Discipline practitioner and the first early childhood educator to be named National Teacher of the Year.
In this episode, you’ll hear from Luke Jankee, principal of Verrado Elementary School in Arizona, on how he creatively applied the principles of Conscious Discipline to manage bullying and drama.
2020 Teachers’ Choice Awards Professional Development Winner from Learning Magazine!
The Active Calming Center guides children through nine physical and mental tasks that help them calm down and cooperate.
Teach children strategies for self-control, and you’ll be amazed how quickly they learn to manage intense emotions.
Learn how to reduce the stress of out-of-home care and utilize attachment, attunement and social play to wire the brain for optimal development.
Real Impact in Real Time
Our Early Learning Impact
Melissa Carver, Principal of Sunshine Center Birth to Three, Independent School District
Our Customized Solutions for Thriving Families
Training & Workshops for Parents & Families
Leadership That Puts Families First
Family-Centered Implementation Plan
Upcoming Live & Virtual Events
- Establish connections with like-minded parents, families and educators all over the nation.
- Deepen your knowledge and practice with hands-on tips and tools for direction implementation.
Tools for Parenting with Conscious Discipline
Classroom Management Essentials
Strategies for adult self regulation to model emotional intelligence.
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Latest Case Studies
What is Conscious Discipline?
Grounded in brain research, Conscious Discipline teaches essential social-emotional skills that empower both educators and students to self-regulate, creating a compassionate and effective learning environment….
Latest Podcasts
Real Talk for Real Teachers
Tune in to our podcast Real Talk for Real Teachers where we dive into the real-world challenges teachers face every day. Hosted by educators and experts, this podcast brings you actionable insights, inspiring stories…
Conscious Discipline has a 25-year track record of transformational results
Conscious Discipline Methodology
Evidence-based Social Emotional Learning and Classroom Management Best Practices
Conscious Discipline is an evidence-based, trauma-informed approach. It is recognized by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Administration’s (SAMHSA’s) National Registry of Evidence-based Programs and Practices (NREPP), and received high ratings in 8 of 10 categories in a Harvard analysis of the nation’s top 25 social-emotional learning programs. The Harvard study’s authors say, “Conscious Discipline provides an array of behavior management strategies and classroom structures that teachers can use to turn everyday situations into learning opportunities.”
Our core methodology is based on four essential components that are scientifically and practically designed for success:
Brain State Model
The Conscious Discipline Brain State Model recognizes three basic brain / body / mind states likely to produce certain behaviors. Intentional, state- specific responses enable access to advanced skills.
Seven Powers for Conscious Adults
The seven powers create a shift in the way adults see conflict so we can maintain composure and consciously respond to difficult situations. Adults’ ability to self-regulate is the precursor to teaching children social-emotional skills.
Creating the School Family
The School Family increases connections between adults and children at all levels, ensuring optimal development for all. A School Family culture is built through consistent modeling of routines, rituals and structures.
Seven Skills of Discipline
These seven skills transform everyday discipline issues into teachable moments, equipping children with the social-emotional and communication skills needed to manage themselves, resolve conflict and develop healthy behavior.
Dr. Becky Bailey
More About Dr. Becky Bailey, Conscious Discipline Founder
Becky A. Bailey, Ph.D., is an award-winning author, renowned teacher and internationally recognized expert in childhood education and developmental psychology. She touches thousands of lives each year through live events and over 1.2M of her top-selling books are in circulation.
- Educator – Dr. Bailey has worked with children for 35+ years and has also developed curriculum and taught at the college and graduate level.
- Author – Dr. Bailey has authored 15 books related to guidance and discipline and 14 children’s books that model Conscious Discipline for children and adults.
- Founder – Dr. Bailey, along with Kate O’Neil, founded Conscious Discipline (Loving Guidance, Inc.) in 1996. The company recently celebrated their 20 year anniversary.
- Speaker – Becky is a dynamic and engaging speaker, facilitating Institutes, workshops, courses and keynote addresses at a variety of Conscious Discipline and education industry events annually.
E-Learning
Helpful Teaching on Any Device, On-Demand
Build your Conscious Discipline skills with flexible e-learning options including online courses, webinars and our podcast, “Real Talk for Real Teachers.”
NEW: Handling Upset: The Adult-First Mindset Shift
Our newly expanded and updated online course, Conscious Discipline: Building Resilient Schools and Homes includes 10+ hours of experiential learning with Dr. Becky Bailey, a course textbook, participant workbook and tons of digital extras.
Free Webinars
Browse free webinars from Dr. Bailey and other Conscious Discipline Certified Instructors on a variety of helpful topics.
Podcast: Real Talk for Real Teachers
Listen to this monthly podcast from Conscious Discipline. Join Conscious Discipline experts Latoria Marcellus and Amy Speidel as they connect with educators, parents and community leaders in diverse conversations that delve into the challenges and triumphs of social-emotional education in today’s world.
Audio Teaching
Our Premium Resource Toolkit includes access exclusive digital resources including five popular, multi-part audio series from Dr. Becky Bailey.
Events
Institutes, Workshops and Conferences
From our in-depth Summer Institutes to workshops to National and Local Workshops to Industry Conferences, you will find Conscious Discipline at over 30 events each year. Browse our schedule to learn more about upcoming topics, dates and registration information.
Institutes
Conscious Discipline’s Summer (CD1) and Advanced (CD2) Institutes are 5- to 7-day intensive events. These immersive experiences sell out annually, and offer a hands-on working understanding of how the powers, skills and structures of Conscious Discipline unleash safety, connection and problem-solving.
Workshops
Learn more about Conscious Discipline in your own community! Browse our local workshops to see what our Certified Instructors are up to as they partner with area school districts, after-school and community programs. Plus, find out where to sign up for upcoming parenting events and learn how to Conscious Discipline works at home.
Industry Conferences
Conscious Discipline attends a broad range of regional and national education industry and social-emotional learning events. Our Certified Instructors are frequent keynote speakers and workshop facilitators, plus you’ll often find interactive demonstration and FAQ sessions at our booth in the exhibit hall.

