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2021 Connecting with Hard to Reach Children

Connecting with hard to reach children and managing big behaviors have always been common classroom challenges. Yet the isolation, uncertainty, trauma and stress of the COVID-19 pandemic significantly multiplied these difficulties. As students return to school, re-establishing connection and safety will be essential to reducing challenging behaviors and fostering healing, learning and problem solving. In this two-day workshop, Connecting with Hard to Reach Children, you’ll gain fresh insight and new strategies on how to connect with hard to reach children, including those impacted by trauma and toxic stress.

Master Instructor Elizabeth Montero-Cefalo will specifically address stressors related to COVID-19 and their effect on children. You’ll learn to manage your own anxieties, then understand and respond to challenging behavior, building connection that leads to cooperation–and, ultimately, lasting behavioral changes.

This event takes place at a school that is successfully implementing Conscious Discipline, giving you the unique opportunity to see strategies and structures in action as you gain insight from a Master Instructor.


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  • Location:
    • Kaukauna, WI
  • Facilitators:
    • Elizabeth Montero-Cefalo

Here's What You'll Learn:

Big Idea

As children return to school following the pandemic, we don’t know what behaviors to expect. We do know that disconnection, lack of safety and trauma create a perfect storm for big behaviors–one that traditional discipline strategies won’t fix. Learn new, better strategies for connection and cooperation, even in uncertain times.

Who Should Attend

This workshop is designed to provide educators who teach children of any age with effective, research-based strategies to build relationships and improve behavior under uniquely challenging circumstances.

Your Facilitators

Master Instructor Elizabeth Montero-Cefalo, who has extensive experience in special education, will guide you through actionable strategies to connect with hard to reach children.

Workshop Materials

These materials are included with your Conscious Discipline Workshop registration, your workshop handout and a Conscious Discipline tote bag.

More Information About This Event

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    The Connecting with Hard to Reach Children Workshop will be hosted at the:

    Park Community Charter
    509 Lawe St,
    Kaukauna, WI 54130

    Local and State CDC Guidelines

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    Event Confirmation

    Seating is limited. Please make sure the contact information you provide when you register is truly the best way for us to reach you prior to the event. If you have not received your confirmation prior to start date, it is your responsibility to contact Conscious Discipline. We recommend that you do not purchase non-refundable airfare until you receive an email confirmation from Conscious Discipline. Conscious Discipline assumes no responsibility for travel arrangements made prior to written confirmation of your acceptance as an attendee.

    By registering for a Conscious Discipline event, you are agreeing to the terms and conditions detailed below and includes a publicity photo release.


    Cancellations must be received in writing via email to [email protected]. Refunds will be processed as follows: Up to 30 days before the start of the event: Full refund of tuition paid. 14-29 days before the start of the event: Refund of tuition paid less a $100 processing fee. Within 14 days of the start of the event: No refund. No-shows: No refund. Conscious Discipline reserves the right to substitute speakers at any event. In the unlikely event an institute is cancelled, registrants will be refunded paid institute tuition only.

    Registration Substitutions

    Attendees and Team Administrators may substitute another person for their seat up to 30 days before the start of the event. Within 30 days of the event, a $50.00 administration fee will be incurred and invoiced after the event per substitution. Please contact [email protected] for any assistance. It would be helpful to have your order number with the names and email addresses of your substitutions ready to share with our representative.

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    I agree that no filming, video or live capture of any kind is allowed at this event. I hereby release, discharge, and hold harmless Conscious Discipline, its employees, independent contractors, administrators, agents, assignees and anyone who it may be claimed liable from injury or damage. This is a binding and voluntary release for all injury, accident or death for both person and property. I assume all risk for travel, attendance, and participation in the event.

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    The Conscious Discipline event scholarship covers tuition fees and course materials for this workshop. Travel, accommodations, meals and any special discount packages are not covered. If you have registered for this event and you are selected to receive a scholarship, your registration fees will be refunded.

    If you are selected to receive a scholarship, understand that you may be requested to write a very brief article of your experience that will likely be published in our online newsletter, announced in an email and/or posted on our website.

    Prior scholarship recipients are not eligible and the scholarship is not transferable.

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Transform chaos to connection and cooperation with hard to reach children

Have you found it especially difficult to connect with students over the past year? Are you worried about how disconnected, traumatized children will behave when they return to school?  This workshop will integrate research about brain development with proven interventions and best practices designed to help you reach hurting, hurtful children. Learn simple strategies to replace chaos with connection and cooperation for your most challenging children, even during times of stress and uncertainty.


  • Understand why some children resist connection.
  • Examine family stressors related to COVID-19 and their impact on children.
  • Learn how to reduce anxiety during challenging times for both yourself and children through active calming.
  • Discover how to build relationships with hard-to-reach children and provide a felt sense of safety through consistent, responsive caregiving.
  • Learn why consequences often fail with chronically aggressive children, and how and why connection leads to lasting behavioral changes.
  • Explore the Conscious Discipline Brain State Model so you can better understand children’s behavior and which responses will be most helpful.
  • Equip yourself with immediately usable strategies to help children develop impulse control and increase cooperation.
  • Learn to adapt Conscious Discipline strategies like I Love You Rituals, Baby Doll Circle Time and noticing for all, especially children with trauma.
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